Just keeps getting better! Grrr! - Adoption.com Forums

Hippie Girl isn't even in my home anymore, and I'm still dealing with her crap!! Urg! So, you all know about the behaviors we were having with her. Defiance, urinating everywhere, refusing school work, lying...you name it. So we asked for a disruption. The caseworker was LIVID about the disruption, and moved the girls out without so much as letting anyone say goodbye. She literally had to carry Princess out of my house...anyway...I GOT A CALL FROM CPS INVESTIGATORS TODAY! SERIOUSLY? Evidently, HG told her case worker that she was made to sleep on the floor. Really? Take a look at her mattress and then ask me again! But no, that's not all! The CW has her info ALL WRONG. She claims that I am living with my little brother and his wife and 18 month old DAUGHTER, in their home, while claiming a foster license. WOW. Check the lease sweetheart. This is MY HOUSE. It has been MY HOUSE for over a year now. My little brother is joining the Air Force, and moved into one of my extra rooms, so that his young wife and baby wouldn't be alone while he is away. I pay the bills. And on top of that, they have a 22 month old SON, not daughter. Way to make yourself look uninformed! But it gets better. She claims that I had a suspended license while driving foster kids around...YOU MUST HAVE YOUR CASES MIXED HUNNY! I've never even had a ticket! I've been pulled over ONCE, 3 years ago, driving through a small town in Montana. They didn't recognize my truck, so they stopped and asked where I was heading. End of story. THIS IS RIDICULOUS. The CW alleges that I am prejudice against HG because she is not a blond haired, blue eyed "attractive" child like her sister....I am a brunette with brown eyes, as is EVERYONE ELSE in my family. Try again. CW alleges that I did not provide for HG to participate in activities. This one is true. She got to go to school, family outings, and church. No clubs, no activities, no groups (except therapy ones.) Why? because her grades and behavior SUCKED, and she didn't deserve to go. Do your school work and act like a decent person, and you could join anything you wanted to! And to top it off...HG alleges that she was made to "wait on" the entire family and scrub the floors. We have a rotating chore list that is posted on the kitchen chalkboard. EVERYONE in the household has a chore, and at the end of the week, we switch. That is life. Families have chores. Get over it! She is 11, not 1! And the only floor she was made to clean was the spot that she chose to urinate in! It is not my job to clean pee out of your bedroom carpet if you chose to squat and pee rather than walk the 5 feet to the bathroom. My agency is ticked! They are willing to back me, and want copies of all my documentation. They are hoping that the allegation doesn't hit my license, or it "could close your home for a while." WHAT A LOAD OF FREAKING CRAP!!!! I am SOOOO mad right now that I could scream. I understand that the caseworker is mad that I asked for a disruption, but use your brain. Anyone out there been through an investigation and lived to tell the tale? This is crazy, and hopefully will be easily thrown out. Geez.

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